it needs to be nurtured and requires constant attention.
When you stop caring, when you stop feeding it, it will whither and die.
Love just doesn’t stop, you stop loving. Your reasons for loving a person may change, which in turn effects your view of the person and how much effort you want to put into keeping that person and the love you share with them.
If your love was based on pure physical attraction (then it wasn’t really love in the first place), as that physical beauty fades, your reason for loving them fades, thus your commitment to keeping that love alive fades until you are no longer in love.
People don’t just fall out of love, through a series of choices that may span months to years, they choose to stop loving someone. Whether its because they decided they found something better to love, or because their loved one did something unforgivable, its a choice.
It is also repairable. You can fall back in love with someone you are falling out of love with if you are both willing to try at it. It is hard to love someone that doesn’t love you back.
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